Canadian Jewish News

FILLING IN THE EMPTY SPACES OF A MOTHER’S LIFE

It was only March, but the sun cast a warm glow on the fields dotting the Polish countryside. I couldn’t help but notice that the flat landscape before me, which was painted with picturesque farmhouses and tall green pine trees, had an uncanny resemblance to rural Ontario, the place I call home. I could imagine the desperate souls who, decades ago, found shelter among the towering trees, hoping that they and their loved ones would be spared from the brutal Nazi regime.

As my husband and I joined the Toronto contingent of the March of the Living last spring, I thought I could handle seeing Auschwitz and the gruesome death camps of Majdanek and Birkenau. What worried me was the potential emotional upheaval that my husband, being a child of Holocaust survivors, might experience on the trip.

I was born lucky. I grew up in Toronto in the 1960s, having grandparents, aunts and uncles, all Jewish, who escaped Poland years before the Second World War began. I heard stories about the Holocaust, but felt its potency only from a distance. Every year on Yom ha-Shoah, I watched a slide show of horrific black-and-white images of corpses that were projected on a large screen in the back of the synagogue’s social hall. I was terrified to see such atrocities, but thought that this kind of genocide could never happen to me, here in Canada. I never needed to learn how to live with extreme loss or trauma.

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Interior of renovated synagogue in Leadville, CO.

On my way to Aspen, Colorado, to attend a Bat Mitzvah, I stop midway to grab a coffee in a funky little town called Leadville. While sipping my freshly roasted brew, I stroll along Leadville’s charming historic district, that looks more like an old western movie set,  taking in the breathtaking snow dipped Rocky Mountain tops visible in the distance.

Leadville, also known as Cloud City, for its high elevation (over 10,000 feet), is home to just under 3000 residents. I peek inside the Silver Dollar Saloon, dimly lit, but still serving locals since the silver mining boom of the 1800’s, and then walk further down to the Antique Emporium, in search of yet another chachka to add to my collection. In fact, I am so excited about my purchase (a pair of art deco turquoise glass candlesticks) that I almost miss the white sidewalk sign with a large black arrow pointing to Temple Israel Frontier Synagogue & Museum just down the road.

Like a kid on a treasure hunt, I follow, walking past lavender and canary yellow painted gingerbread homes, to the corner of 4th and Pine Street. I know that I’ve reached my destination when I make out three iron Stars of David placed symmetrically on the top of synagogue steeples. Once inside, I am overwhelmed with the beauty of this small two-storey structure, built in 1884- it is said to be one of the few remaining pioneer synagogues west of the Mississippi River.

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Odede and SHOFCO Programs Director George Okewa walking in Kibera. (Photo: Paul Horton)

As a boy sitting in his 10-foot by 10-foot shanty in Kibera, Kenya, one of Africa’s largest slums Kennedy Odede never could have dreamed where his life would take him. But in the past five years, the 27-year-old Odede managed to land himself a four-year scholarship at Wesleyan University in Connecticut, and co-found (and is the CEO of) Shining Hope for Communities (SHOFCO), a nonprofit devoted to combating gender inequality and extreme poverty in Kibera. Oh, and he also shared the podium with Bill Clinton and Sean Penn at the Clinton Global Initiative University’s closing Plenary Session, a forum that brings together young leaders from across the globe to share, discuss, and formulate action on global issues, and was recently invited to become a CGI member, an honor given to heads of state, Nobel Prize winners, and business titans.

Odede’s rise from painfully humble beginnings to running an organization that, in the past two years, has improved the lives of over 11,000 people is an impressive accomplishment—made even more remarkable because prior to attending Wesleyan, Odede had no formal education. Like many stories of triumph, this one starts with a son’s love for his mother. “My mother [Jane] is an incredibly strong woman who loves her children very much,” Odede says. “She is an innovative thinker who imagined the possibility of a promising future.” The eldest of eight children, Odede began selling peanuts on the streets at age 7 to help feed his family. Kibera, roughly the size of New York’s Central Park, is home to over 1.5 million people. There are no roads, schools, health care, clean water, or sanitation. In fact, one in every five children does not live to see their fifth birthday, and 66 percent of girls trade sex for food, many as early as age 6.

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Peaches [Adam Cohen photo]

A twinkling hot pink sequined brassiere, the sweet smell of marijuana in the air, the crowd wildly screams “F–k the pain away”, as a blow up penis bounces on stage. If you’ve ever been to see Peaches in concert, these images will ring true, and if you haven’t, you have no idea what you’re missing.

Peaches wasn’t always Peaches, yet her rise to fame, as one of the pioneers of electroclash is equally as riveting as the forever-young looking 41-year-old, herself.

I had the pleasure of knowing Peaches (a.k.a. Merrill Nisker) in the late 70’s, when she was a tweener, absolutely adorable and the comedian in her family. I was best friends with her older sister, and Merrill was best friends with my little sister. Many a good time was spent in the Nisker household. Her parents were very cool people, serving up amazing conversations and great snacks in their warm and open home. I was pleased as punch to learn that Merrill started getting hooked on music after hanging out at my house, singing along with my piano- playing brother. What an honour! Merrill taught herself to play guitar, and claims ” she can play many instruments, but not very well”. This lack of formal training certainly has not held her back.

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